My Sergei: A Love Story by
Ekaterina Gordeeva
My rating:
5 of 5 stars
Ekaterina Gordeeva and Sergei Grinkov were two times Olympians who won gold and four times World champions. When the two skated, they moved as one, the moves were breathtaking, excellence. beautiful and romantic, technically, but also emotionally, they were so incredible as a team. They really set the bar high in pairs figure skating, for all who came after them. What made Ekarterina and Sergei most unique was their chemistry with each other as they became one of the most romantic and beloved pairs teams of all time.
Their love story isn't just about them being one of the greatest pair skaters in the world, but also as a team, a man and a woman, husband and wife, father and mother, and then tragically, a skater without a partner, a single mother, a widow, alone.
It was one of the greatest tragedies in the sport of ice skating, when in November 1995, while training in Lake Placid, for the 'Stars on Ice' tour, and with his partner (wife) Ekaterina "Katia", as family, friends, call her, along with people in the skating world calls her, Sergei Grinkov collapsed at the Olympic Center. He died of a heart attack.
Katia, found herself lost after Seregi's death, and writes not only how she felt in those dark, lonely days after he passed, all the questions she had about how she would go on, how will she be able to raise her daughter and answer the questions she will have about her dad, the dad who she'd never know, who wouldn't be there for her first day of school, who wouldn't walk her down the isle when she got married.
She tells their story in this book, not only about herself but also Seregi's from the time he was born, to how he became a skater, to their marriage, becoming a father for the first time. As she tells their story, you can feel the love they had for each other, their happy times when they were off the ice as well as on the ice. She shares into their lives. She talks about the other skaters who were around them, many who were there when Seregi passed, those who helped them both with their english, who became their friends, and later her friends who stood by her, were there for her not only at the rink, hospital or funeral, but after all of it was said and done. They stood by her when she made the choice to return to her home, Russia. She felt she needed to be around family, and Sergei, as that is where they buried him, in his home country.
She talks about life after losing her husband, how she thought how difficult it was and how it might be for the rest of her life, as she says in the book, she just didn't lose her skating partner, she didn't lose just her husband, but she also lost a part of herself, her heart. She writes about how life went on around her, how she, herself, had to make a life for her and her baby girl Daria, how hard it was at times to look at her daughter who reminded her so much of her father, and feel her heartbreaking again, and again, and again. But Daria, was always their for Katia, through the good times and the bad, and she helped her to realize it was up to her to survive, to move on, to continue to live.
The whole time you can feel the same emotions she was feeling, she did a wonderful job of showing you her world, her love for Seregi, and how she herself had to move on. She needed to tell not only her story, but his as well. Her love for him, and someday for her daughter to be able to read this book, and get to know who her father was, and to truly love him the way Katia, loves him. After all, he was her Seregi.
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